black hair lady:
*rests pussy on ya shoulder* hold ya ear
People always ask me if it’s hard being single all your life. I can honestly say that, for me, it’s not. I don’t feel like I’m missing a loving relationship because I have so many incredible friendships and moments that ignite my passion.
The best friendship which made being alone enjoyable, was befriending myself and loving who I am.
Of course there’s always room to love another, but my heart is so full of passion and love for my work, my girls, my dreams, my friends, my family, and even strangers….
When someone comes along who slides right into the pace of my life, then I will date. But I am so happy how I am now. I rarely think a significant other is someone missing in my life.
So on valentines day I usually get a lot of asks from people who want to know why I’m single, my response is: because I’m not in a relationship. There’s no reason…no rush…no hurt, pain or anger :)
the day my wash-n-gos match my stretched twist outs is the day that i have truly arrive
Yesterday was everything I wanted it to be and more,
for that moment we were all black sisters in the struggle,
no matter what organization you were affiliated with,
no matter your sexual orientation,
everyone looked at each other truly as sisters.
If only we could keep that mindset once we exited.
That’s when we will have truly arrived as a people.
Anywho, i’m so blessed to have been the person to orchestrate such an amazing evening.
Let’s see what God has in store for us next!